Follow These 8 Tips When Writing Your Wedding Vows

Posted on
Apr 17, 2023
Follow These 8 Tips When Writing Your Wedding Vows

Getting ready for your big day? One of the most important things you need to work on is your vows. While this is important and can be a little pressuring, don’t sweat it!

Follow these tips to write your wedding vows, and you’ll do fine.

1. Start Early

A mistake most people make is waiting until the last minute to write their wedding vows. Our advice is to give yourself plenty of time to reflect on your feelings and thoughts. Giving yourself enough time to write your vows will help you write something meaningful and personal.

2. Take Your Inspiration from Others

While your vows should be your own, you can also get inspiration from others. Read examples of wedding vows, including traditional and modern ones, to help you get started. Don’t copy word for word but personalize it and make it your own.

3. Make Sure it Reflects Your Relationship with Your Partner

As you write your vows, think about your journey as a couple. Reflect on your ups and downs, the challenges and joy you faced together. Think about your shared values, beliefs, and goals for the future, and include them—or at least a brief overview of them—in your vows.

4. Speak from Your Heart

Use words and phrases to make your vow personal. Express your feelings and what you want to promise your future spouse. Be specific and use anecdotes and stories to illustrate your love for your partner. Be specific about what you want to promise them.

5. Be Authentic

It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and say anything as long as it sounds nice. Don’t try to be someone you are not or say things that aren’t true to you or know you won’t do. A vow, after all, is something you pledge to do before so many witnesses. It should reflect who you are as an individual and as a couple.

6. Keep It Concise

While you want your vows to be meaningful and personal, you don’t want them to be too long and rambling that people lose interest or can’t follow your train of thought. Aim for about one to two minutes for each of you to say your vows.

7. Be Mindful of Your Audience

While your vows are a personal expression of your love, they are also shared with family and friends at your wedding. Be mindful of your language and tone, and avoid anything that could be seen as inappropriate and offensive.

8. Practice Out Loud

Practice saying your vows out loud to get a feel for how they sound and to make sure they flow well. Practicing your vows will also help you feel more comfortable and confident to say them on your wedding day.

Preparing Your Wedding Vows

Remember, your wedding vows are a special and personal expression of the love you and your partner have for each other. Take your time, be true to yourselves, and enjoy the process of writing and sharing your vows on your wedding day.